Sense of Belonging

Need to have a sense of belonging. What is my identity? Is it built on the friends that I make? I seem to be able to find my voice when there is familiarity in diversity.

Think it is due to my characteristics and my personality. What can i do to improve on my personality? Yesterday as i was reflecting, I came to realize this. I should form a better relationship with God.
So that in all circumstances, there is always peace in my heart.
It is said in the bible, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not all your own understand”

I know that God is in my life. Whenever I need something, God will provide me with someone who will assist me in it.

My Vocal cords

My Vocal cords -- http://www.uiowa.edu/~shcvoice/register4.html
Results: Your cumulative score is between 20 and 40, out of the worst-possible score of 100. You have generally good vocal health habits and have been blessed with a robust larynx that generally stands up well to the demands of teaching. We suspect you notice when you over-do it, but you recover quickly. Wouldn't you like to learn ways to vocalize without soreness or fatigue on days when you must talk frequently? Knowing that teachers are at high risk for developing voice disorders, you will likely also want to learn strategies to prevent vocal injuries.
You will begin learning in the Media Center, where you'll become familiar with amplification systems for classroom use. Later in your journey, you'll learn about the inter-relationship of overall health and voice, theatre voice techniques, and how to gauge the vocal friendliness of your classroom acoustics. Why not start learning now?

Everything is possible :Selfish and Selfless

Is there something that u would like to do but you think you can't make it?
Do you think that it is impossible to run 42km?
Do i think that it will be hard to be a teacher?

When we think in sucha way, we are placing a limit to our own capacity.
Pastor says today that, we need the renewal of mind, and go back to the fundamental.

FIRST is to do all things in LOVE. (Which coincides with the greatest command in the bible- Love your neighbour like yourself).

DO you think that it is hard to love everyone? That is another limit that you have place in yourself. For the bible says, Trust in the lord and lean not on your own understanding.

Indeed, i would want to learn to be more like christ and put my own selfish desires aside and be even more selfless. TO love like i have never love before.

Marriage Preparation Course - The road to discovery

The pros of MPC

1) I think MPC has strengthen my relationship with Yating.
- Allow her to know me better.
haha...Pastor says that my knowledge about Yating is almost perfect.
Whereas yating, there are a few aspects that she didnt know me well.
However, some reasons may be because, i don't protray myself to be like that in front of her, or i have played down my strength.

e.g. I am animated and expressional but since Yating don't like people to be too loud, animated, usually, i play it down.

2) MPC to prepare us for marriage with advices from knowledgable people.
- There are a lot of tacit knowledge and much advices on communication patterns, conflict handling & finance preparation.

It is interesting to hear from Charismatic couple who have been through there and done that.

Indeed God is our Provider.

My Locus of Control

I am quite happy taking modules that i like in NIE. Education Psychology project:
We did a test on our personality.

TRY IT OUT! =) below is my result
http://www.mhhe.com/socscience/education/edpsych/santrocked02/ch13_sa.html

Results of the Locus of Control Test
General Locus of Control

William's score = 75

What does your score mean?

Your locus of control appears to be rather internal. People with an internal LC interpret outcomes as the result of one's own actions, and tend to accept responsibility as well as credit for their actions. In general, this attitude generates high motivation, effort, perseverance, and willingness to take risk.
It goes without saying that success is more likely with all these qualities present. It's important to understand and accept one's own limits. It's equally important not to give up without doing one's best. Your locus of control is on the right side.
http://www.mhhe.com/socscience/education/edpsych/santrocked02/ch13_sa.html